When push comes to shove...

When push comes to shove, anything and everything is possible. Sometimes in life we face challenges, things we dont actually want to do, but we know we have to. Its at times like these we have to push ourselves forward in order to get the things we dislike done or completed! 


Throughout my life ive always battled with confidence within myself, always feeling not quite good enough for anything. Lacking such a huge thing, it stopped me alot from doing things i always dreamt of doing! Now i look back at times of opportunity and i think to myself "why didnt i just have the balls to get up and grab that once in a life time offer with both hands and experince all that it had to offer?" However whats been and done in the past has been lived and gone! Theres no point in living to regret. Now, i have come to realise that i am constantly pushing myself to do things that i know will make me grow not only in confidence but as a person! 


Shit happens in life but you know what, theres no point in moaning about things you missed out on, there is no point in getting angry at someone and there really is no point in holding yourself back from everything you have yet to explore in life! Get up of your ass, grow some balls and live life to the fullest! And if you dont then dont EVER moan about a single thing... cause life is what you make of it... my friend! 

The Power Of Unconditional Love

When You love someone truly, You would give them anything they needed. You would sacrifice your own life for them. True love is hard to find and to feel. 


Its rare to find this true love in this day and age when the meaning of relationships are becoming so "old school" right now. In my opinion
relationships have become a fashion and people feel they need to be involved in one to find happiness! And this is so not the case! 


Its not right to rely on another being to make you happy, to make it their responsibility to bring you that happiness. No one serves you, only you serve yourself! 


Instead when you find true happiness, inner peace and self contented love, that is when you can have a healthy, balanced and blissful relationship. You then simply feel so much joy just from your own self that when you come together with this person the joys from both of your lives and realities then join as one and that blissful and magical energy is made. 


" I once was involved in a distant relationship with a lovely guy, I loved him so much and enjoyed all the times and moments i got to share speaking with him.  Eventually this relationship came to an end, i was so sad and upset when he told me that is was now the end, i felt angry at the time and i felt as if i was a failure! I lost alot of trust and love for him. However since time passed i reflected back on the experience. I started to see everything in a much different light, a light that was full with love and wisdom! He taught me so much and now i see it all perfectly and i wouldn't change anything that happened, cause the universe had planned it all out to be this way! I love this guy so much even to this very day and on wards! I loved and love him so much that i let him go and end it all with me. I love him so much that all i care about is his happiness and if that means being with another girl then id wish it for him, now that is proof right there! because to me that is true unconditional love that i have for another beautiful soul!" 


The reason for sharing this story here is because it was a important lesson i learnt in life. It made me really feel and see unconditional love for what it is! 
If you love someone then you would let them go and be free even if you wanted them to stay, you would let them be :) When you experience such a thing as i did then you really can start to understand the true power of love! 

An influenced mind is not at all free for thoughts!

When people come into our lives, they bring alot of energy with them. Weather this energy be friendship, relationship, work mate, or even an enemy! The energy they bring with them instantly connects to your own and therefore is enhanced in some way! 


Energy when it matches can bring about great sparks which grows into big beautiful and warm fires! These are the awesome connections we have with like minded beings that bring out the best in ourselves. However energy when it causes too much friction can cause unbalancedness and negativity, these are the connections that enemies often have. Usually people that we find who drain our energy and suck life out of our auras often has this kind of chemical energy reaction!! 


It dosent matter who we connect to in our reality, they all each have a certain energy reaction with your own personal energy field! In life you will always find that you have or are being INFLUENCED by a particular person! These influences can often be so great and help us to see more lightful and inspiring things in life or our future to come! They can help us to grow stronger and be a better person, the person we want to be or become. On the other hand we can also be influenced in the wrong ways, unhealthy ways, ways that control our mind, body and spirit and actually stop us from doing things and make us even doubt our own unique selves! In this message i am bringing to your view to remember to always have your own mind and go with your heart which is in my opinion is always the correct way as you are going with love, letting love guide you to where you need or want to be! Dont be easy influenced by anyone! Even the ones you love and care about. Only you know YOU! Be true to yourself and any mistakes you make along the way are for you to learn and grow from! 


Let your mind be free, free from influences and free to all thoughts that are your OWN! You are born into this world alone and therefore you have total control of everything you do! You are You and no one should ever change you or make decisions for you! 


This is your life! So take time to focus on you and everything you do! :) 


Smile like you mean it! Smile from your soul! 


<3 

Find Balance

In this reality, Its very easy to drift off. 

Sometimes we drift into places full of wonder and magic, 

Other times we drift off into places that lack in wonder and magicalness!

When we are focused in life, we achieve things that we often doubted and never thought we would reach, however when we loose that focus we tend to linger in our own thoughts and feelings that make us feel trapped or stuck in one time and space.

In this reality, your life, your being, its important to take each moment, the now and to use it to the max! Take the time, being now and use it to your advantage! If you waste time, time will waste you! We all have dreams, wishes, goals and things that inspire us in life, its up to YOU if YOU really want to reach out to those things and bring them into your life!

This is your journey, your adventure, your life and no one can stop you, hold you back, or tell you not to do anything! You are a free human being to do what you wish to do in this existence!

Be free and be love!

Experience Human Life and Enjoy it for all that it has to offer!